Friday, August 08, 2008

Heyhey.... I may get my five minute of fame thru Stomp or any other website that the guy post the picture. Well the story goes like this (extracted from my sis blog and edited by me),

Went to Causeway point for dinner.

My baby, Keon wet his pants. We were still in Delifrance cafe and Kiern was still eating his dinner. I asked my sis and mum to go to the nursing room to help change my baby diaper while i feed Kiern his last few mouths of food.

After my dad paid for the bill, the 3 of us went up to the nursing room to find my baby, mum and sis.


As Keon was wet, my sis rushed to the nursing room.

She pushed the door, without knowing theres a boy at the back of the door as there was no way she can see it. Tell me anyone that can see thru a door.

Though there is a glass panel on the door but its at a height whereby we can only see an adult but not children and a aunty was there, she was far behind the door

Perhaps my sis did push too hard.

And it knock the boy.

My sis apologised, so did my mumsy.

But...


The Boy's grandma aka that 'aunty' keep nagging and scolding while my sis and mum keep apologising.

Ok my mum did say something to the aunty that they cant see the boy and she aka that aunty should look after the boy too, she should ask the boy not to stand behind a door and my mum started saying all this becos that aunty just keep scolding non-stop!

The boy's mum kept silent initially then she said my sis, "you can't said that you already say you are sorry, that is not the right attitude, you never even care for my boy."

Kaoz, my sis said that cos she keep apologising yet that aunty keep scolding non-stop and what's more you want my sis to do? Who say my sis is not concern about the boy, when i went into the nursing room after my dad paid the bill, my sis asked me if i see the boy, if he is alright. Ok, even if my sis go forward and sayang the boy and show concern to the boy, would his grandmother allow?? She is scolding and scolding NON-STOP, she is so angry, who dares to go near them?! Some more the aunty said "this is a nursery room so you should know there is children so how can you push the door so hard?!"


When they left, that auntie shouted "stupid, bastard"... So much so for saying this is a nursery room with children around. We just kept quiet cos we know its our fault.

Just nice, the boy's dad came, the boy's mum said a few sentences to him then

he continue saying stuff then they left. Less than 2 minutes, he came back, holding his hp out.

I think he took our picture and he said he called the police.

Told us to stayed then said my sis should not said that she already said she is sorry and said my mum should not say that they should look after their children.

My mum wanna said something to him, i stopped her as how we explained is no use cos they are angry, whatever we said is no use. I told the boy's dad, "We know its our fault, we have apologised, if you have call the police, we will wait for the police to come and we will corporate." By then, he had mellowed down a bit and security guards came with ppl standing and looking at us. The boy's dad said he called the police and he will go downstairs to wait for the police.


So we wait and guess what...

instead the family went off.

We waited for nothing. I went to the customer service counter, while my family waited outside the nursing room, to ask to speak to the security guard on duty on level 3.

After the customer service lady helped me called the security guard, he went to look for my sis at level 3 and ask her to go off,

As he think the family had gone too.

My sis left her number to the security guard so if that family were to pursue that matter, they can contact my sis.




Ok... right now I have a few questions on my mind regarding that incident..


That aunty: "this is a nursery room so you should know there is children so how can you push the door so hard?!"
Why are they in a nursing room? To nurse the children which i think is impossible as 2 of them are in their primary school and the boy is like Kiern age or maybe 1 year older than him. To change diaper?? Maybe but the boy are old enough to say he wants to go to the washroom. But maybe I am wrong, maybe he really went to change his diaper. Or are they there to sit and chit-chat???

That aunty: "this is a nursery room so you should know there is children so how can you push the door so hard?!"
If you said that is a nursery room with children then why do you use "ugly" words to scold us? All your grand children are there and so is my 2 K's.


That aunty: "this is a nursery room so you should know there is children so how can you push the door so hard?!"

Hmm... as a parent myself, no matter what room or what venue, i always tell my boy to practice pre-cautious. Like never stand behind a door as you never know when someone will open the door, never touch anything when we are out shopping in case he breaks an item, always stop and look carefully before crossing the road etc. I am not trying to defend myself or my sis but we never know when incident will happen, if everyone "should know" then there will not be any accident happen.


Just nice, the boy's dad came, the boy's mum said a few sentences to him then he continue saying stuffs then they left. Less than 2 minutes, he came back, holding his hp out.

How much can a person understand the whole situation in less than 5 minutes and said that he called the police??? How much does he know about the incident when he is there for less than 5 minutes and tell us he want to call the police.


The boy's dad said he called the police and he will go downstairs to wait for the police.

Where are you guys??? You just left like that?? So why said you had called the police?? To scare us? To embarrass us in front of other ppl? We are not scare cos we admit we are in the fault and we keep apologising. But do i have a case with them that they embarrass us in a public? After reading the Dawn Yang case with Xiaxue, I think we might have a case here.


And finally to my sis,

they may have spoilt your birthday and our happy mood but at least you know your family are behind you no matter what happen... Happy 18th Birthday and Congrats to your legal age for driving :)

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